Come Out & Play T-Shirt · $25 ·
Come Out & Play T-Shirt · $25 ·
GAME NIGHT
MONDAY 4/28
7-9pm
at Tapas!
CARDS AGAINST HUMANITY
MUSICAL BINGO
WEDNESDAY 3/26
7:30/8:00/8:30pm
at Wang Chung’s!
SONGS YOU LOVE
Why Mid-Century Modern Made Us Wish for a Power Outage
Because Hawaii serves a scathing and hilarious review of Hulu’s Mid-Century Modern, calling out Nathan Lane’s over-the-top performance, Matt Bomer’s wasted potential, and writing that falls flat.
Why We’re Moving to Idaho
Because Hawaii is leaving paradise and heading to Idaho—where the potatoes are bland and the t-shirts are beige.
Why Mondays Don’t Have to Suck
Mondays get a glow-up in Waikiki when Because Hawaii hosts Game Night at Tapas. With fun party games like Crack List, free entry, and raffle prizes, it’s the most playful way to start your week.
Why Waikiki Is Basically a Queer Runway
Every sidewalk is a catwalk in Waikiki. From speedo-clad sunbathers to local queens strutting Kalākaua with iced coffees, this is where fashion meets sweat in the most fabulous way. Bring your best resort wear—or at least something that makes strangers ask, “Where’d you get that?”
Why You Shouldn’t Trust the Guy Renting Mopeds on Kuhio
He says it’s a “sweet ride.” We say it’s one pothole away from a GoFundMe for your ER visit. Yes, mopeds look cute in theory—but so does a puka shell necklace until you wear it. Get a real scooter or just walk and look hot doing it.
Why Your Friend Suddenly “Moved to Maui” After One Trip
You blinked and now they’re posting shirtless jungle selfies from Haʻikū and using “Aloha Friday” unironically. It’s not a phase—it’s island fever. Maui has that power, especially over gay men who wore linen once and now think they’re plant-based shamans.
Why Everyone Thinks They Can Surf After Two Mai Tais
Let’s be clear: standing on a board for five seconds while hungover does not make you Kelly Slater. Honolulu beaches are littered with brave, delusional attempts—and we love to watch. Surfing’s a sport. You? You’re a vibe.
Why Every Gay Man Needs at Least One Aloha Shirt
Yes, even the fashion-forward ones. Hear us out: the aloha shirt isn’t just your uncle’s cruise uniform—it’s a Hawaiian rite of passage. But it has to be the right one. No parrots. No beer logos. No tourist trap garbage. Just soft cotton, bold print, and a subtle “I might break into hula or a martini-fueled monologue” vibe.
Why Breakfast Might Be Your Best Meal in Waikiki
You came for the sunsets and shirtless surfers, but let’s be honest: breakfast in Waikiki is the real main character. Between the loco moco that could end wars, the ube pancakes sent straight from gay heaven, and the bottomless coffee poured by someone who calls you “hon,” mornings here hit different. You’re not just breaking your fast—you’re making a scene.
Why Are You Barefoot?
In Hawaii, shoes stay outside, and aloha stays in! Learn why removing your shoes before entering a home is an essential island tradition—and how to do it right.
Why You’re Always Sweaty in Hawaii (And That’s Okay)
Welcome to Hawaii, where staying dry is a myth and sweat is just part of the experience. If you came here expecting crisp, cool breezes and zero humidity… that’s adorable. Whether you’re strolling through Waikiki, hiking a lush trail, or just existing outside, you’re going to glisten. But don’t fight it—embrace it. Because Hawaii isn’t just a place, it’s a state of moisture.
Why Reckless Intentions Always Make a Great Story
Some men come to Hawaii for the beaches. Others come for the culture. And then there are those who come with a suitcase full of tank tops, a questionable moral compass, and no real plans besides “see what happens.” This is for them.
Why Spring In Hawaii Is Peak Gay Season!
Spring has arrived in Hawaii, which means the trade winds are blowing, the sun is shining, and your inner frisky little coconut is ready to be cracked open. Whether you’re hitting the beach, the bars, or just the nearest mirror to admire yourself (because, obviously), here’s how to embrace peak cruising season and make the most of these gloriously longer days and hotter nights.
Why Hawaii’s Volcano Observatory is Getting the Boot
In a plot twist no one saw coming, the Hawaiian Volcano Observatory is facing eviction due to federal budget cuts, just as Kilauea puts on its most fabulous lava show yet. Timing is everything, darling.
Why Hawaii’s LGBTQ Commission is Making Waves
Hawaii's LGBTQ+ Commission is shaking up the islands with initiatives that go beyond the surf and sand, tackling issues from healthcare to housing with a flair that’s as vibrant as a Waikiki sunset.
Why Seeking the Best Musubi is a Gamble Worth Taking
While Honolulu boasts some stellar Spam musubi spots, not every experience is a jackpot. Beware of establishments serving musubi with dense bricks of stale rice—proof that even in paradise, culinary gambles can go awry.
Why You Should Roll the Dice at Trivia Night!
Life is full of risks—ordering a mystery shot, texting your ex, or betting it all on a trivia question you think you know. This Monday, March 17, at Wang Chung’s, we’re embracing the thrill of the gamble with a “Roll the Dice” Trivia Night! Whether you go all-in or play it safe, one thing’s for sure—you don’t want to miss the most unpredictable night of trivia yet.
Why Gay Brunch is a Sacred Ritual
Gay brunch isn’t just a meal—it’s a commitment to excellence. It’s the mimosas-to-food ratio, the post-brunch outfit coordination, and the silent but understood rule that if you don’t take at least one group selfie, it never happened. In Honolulu, where beachside brunches blend into afternoon cocktails, the stakes are even higher. Skip your weekend gay brunch at your own risk—but know that we will judge you for it.
Why It’s Totally Fine If You Can’t Surf
Let’s be honest—learning to surf is hard AF. But if you think actually riding waves is a requirement to be a hot surf bro (or sis, or they), think again. Sometimes it’s enough to just hold the board, let the salt mist hit your hair, and make it look like you belong in a photoshoot. So grab that oversized longboard, post up on the sand, and let people assume you’re a pro—no wipeouts necessary.
Why “Come Out & Play” is More Than Just a T-Shirt
Not all t-shirts are created equal. Some are just fabric—others are a statement, a vibe, and an invitation all in one. Enter the Because Hawaii “Come Out & Play” tee—a stacked typography masterpiece that says more than words ever could. It’s a nod to the LGBTQ community, a call to adventure, and let’s be honest, a really damn good-looking shirt. Available in 14 colors, it’s more than just merch—it’s an exclusive invite to the people who get it.